Phenia Mae Wagner died in May 2009 from complications following a stroke, at age 47. Wagner credited his mother with believing in his NFL dream even when his job path wasn’t straightforward, recalling her insistence that he focus on football and that “I got you” would guide him through tough times.
The Phenia Mae Fund has sustained Wagner’s mission beyond her passing, funding stroke research and rehabilitation efforts in her memory. His philanthropic work has become a central pillar of his public profile and a defining aspect of his NFL legacy.
In his acceptance speech, Wagner thanked his father, Bobby Sr., for his guidance, noting, “I didn’t realize how hard it was to be a father until I got two kids of my own.” He then turned his remarks to his mother, calling her “the rock” who gave him confidence when he needed it most and underscoring how her words continue to shape his approach to helping others.
Wagner, who admitted he almost didn’t attend NFL Honors, told attendees he is grateful he did show up. The honor highlights not only his on-field leadership but his sustained commitment to philanthropy, driven by the lasting influence of his mother’s support and the memory of her resilience.
